Friday, November 14, 2003

emergency blog!

yes.. an emergenc blog from what i ahev just been surfinh around on others and i need to get some things out int the open because i'm really getting ticked and pissed lately.

Firstly, i will make a blog constitution with suggestions of other people. This here is a rough draft:
1. Do not blog about a post from someone elses journal in your own. use their commenting system, thats why it's ther. if they dont have one or it's too long, e-mail them or aim them or pm them on a message board. it's very rude to put it in the open for everyone too see outside the so called persons blog.
2.Do not delete posts, thats why we make them. if the post bothers you so entirly much, delet it with out saying so. editing the post and them saying "sorry... i was a bit emotional.. never mind this." is not acceptable. you got a blog to spill out your emotion for others to read, and thats what you post them for.
3. Do not harrass someone about what they posted in their blog, it is personal to them, and it's none of your business if so claimed.
4. Do not mention blog posts outside the net. this means no talking about it to a none blog reader at school, work, etc. it's rude. There is an unsaid contract between blog readers. If not mentioned by the blogger, it's like it never happened.
5. If someone asks you to stop reading, or commenting on a subject or their journal, respect that. there's nothing worse than someone who wont go away. Honestly.
6. if there are certain rules and requirments you have for your own blog, have them typed and posted somewhere for all to notice. It's a pain in the ass if no one knows, and it can be hurtful.
7.No slandering, laughing(unless it's a joke) or teasing someone about one of their posts. Re enforcing number 3 here.
8. Do not use the commenting system as a way of having a convo. with someone other than the author of the blog. it's rude.

I will make a special area for these later, and I'm open for suggestions.

Secondly, i need to write some feeling i have down about certain people. I may or may not be using names here for special reasons.
I have been increasingly, and increasingly annoyed with a certain someone for asking really stupid questions, and i mean stupid. It's said there is no such thing as a stupid question, but i'll be damned if there's not stupid people. This so-named person asks the obvious, even. I have tried to help this person into creating answers for themselves(it is not always good to go through life always asking questions. you should never stop asking, but you should try to figure things out for yourself first.), by giving hints, and clues, but this doesn't seem to work because i get the smae blank stare ever time. But when they are told the answer, an empty light is turned on and they exclaim how obviously obvious the answer was. Although finding these answers are no great feat, they are just to lazy to put two and two together. And when I am annoyed with someone, I do no wan tot be around them, and it is like summer all over again. I can hardly stand it. I've been trying not to say anything to any one because i wasmn't sure why i was upset with this person, but because i think i understand why now i'm willing to blog about it so those who care and ahould know know. I will expand on this later, but i just hope this person feels how i feel and will improve, but if they are as oblivious as they try to act, i may not care.

I'm also going to be posting so very conroversial veiws on thoughts and experiences later because i think people need ot know how and why i think the way i do because i'm not jsut a happy lil person running around with a smile, most of the time i'm pissed or angry at something.

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